When the media down-poured to our drawing rooms with inebriating information on the decision of the Scottish government to release Megrahi on compassionate grounds, the lone convict in the killing of more than 250 air-passengers in the British flight, the British society and Uncle Sam called it a 'childish'decision. Closer in India, we were made to sweat out by the unending verbal extravaganza in the visual media by arm-chair experts on the 'none-other-issue-in India-worthier' than the-Jaswant Singh's latest love for Jinnah. some called his views a kind of check on the BJP's political chess board and others termed them as 'childish'. But a truely child-related news emanated last week from Mumbai which caused so much anguish in the people, evaporated with the same speed with which it shot our blood pressure : Thanks to the protective cover a member from the legal fratenity sought to gain for the alleged accused and the issue has been relegated to the cold burner.
Wealth of literature on the rights a child is entitled to against abuse and violence and much of our debates have focussed on the problems of the child in the Indian context from the view point of legal perspectives, with all inherent shortcomings. Globalization with market-cenric forces in its sway is converting human content in man into cashable commodities. The concept of achieving economic well being alone is considered the be all end end all of our existence in this mother planet. In the process, we are endlessly caught in the spiral of competitive environment, thereby loosing balance in the family institution. Finer sensibilities and pleasures of living together as a family unit with available resources, are giving way to perpetual struggle for achieving technology-driven sensuous happiness through gadgets-filled homes.
There is marked metamorphosis in our attitude and ethos evenwhile making a living in contemporary India. Middle class India, which constitute a major chunk of the nation's demography and influencing the living ways of people, is so obsessed with achiving economic prosperity and in the process of racing against competition, has been loosing foot-hold in the family institutiion. Men in middle class families are becoming islands of seperate entities - an indicator mostly prevailing in affluent families. There is a consistent tendency in making children into marks-churning out machines to take on their stride multifarious challenges globalization has thrown open. Children's pleasures as children are considered unnecessary and evil even to the extent of containing ingredients stunting their future. Finer sensibilties of children commensurate with their age are considered as matters not worthy enough to be given importance.Even before crossing the child age, parents want their children to be "matured" and even become wizardies.
If we come out of the cocoon bristling with legal perspectives alone of the meaning of violence against a child, we may observe many kinds of violence perpetrated day in and day out. Take for instance the life of a child in a middle class background in the Indian context. Invariably, middle class families will have office-going parents and those engage in small businesses - a legacy inherited to us from the 'kumastha' education drilled out to us by Mecauly. In the rush for not missing the first available mode of travel to their work palce, children in the house are thrown food into their gullet to be downed to their belly without scope for chewing. To make the child join the desert of uniformity, the child's neck will be be put into the strangle hold of a neck-tie even in the hottest of the seasons. A huge bag load of books is mounted on the tiny vertabrae of the child to be securely attached till the child reaches the school and the exercise is to be resumed back home in the evening. (R.K.Laxman, that incomparable cartoon genious unabetedly carried forward in his life time a crusade against the crucification of our children by making them securely attached to a load of books perenially through their childhood). An auto-rikshawallah waiting in the door would not miss even one minute precious time to throw the child into the already crowded vehicle to conduct his yatra in the circutous way to the school, doing in the proces, the balacing act of a circus pantaloon to negotiate traffic jam. Finally, the children are jettisioned from over-board the autho-rikshaw ship. And then tons of soiled information is injected into that son of the toil, without leaving scope for learning value eduction and wisdom. As if these things are not enough, the child is put into gruelling test of undergoing a course of tution in every subject till late evening - a symbol myopically considered as middle class status. If these are not violence, what else is violence against children ? The story does not stop here. In the name of securing a perceptible identity, the child is made to undergo a course either in choregraphy or a yoga-yoked commoditised programme to be show-cased in the local TV channels. In the process, the 'child in the child'is lost and the 'man in the child' is heading for clear frustration. An understanding of the children's rights will be incomplete if we approach the problem only from the view point of segregation of chilren into 'poor children', 'working children', 'marginalised children' and so on. violence against children happen in middle class home as well as in the elite houses.The degree of vulnerability alone may vary in different situations. Children constitute 25 percentage of the Indian population. The Mumbai incident of incarceration alleged to have been meted out to a poor child is not an isolated incident. It is the symbolic representative sample of the unmindful violence continuously being unleashed against our children everywhere in the country and day in and day out. The Child Rights (Prohibition and Regulation) Act, 1986, was though enacted as a comprehensive legal code, has failed miserably in its implementation. Its definition of violence revolved only around physical violence and mental torture meted out to a child in different situations is not within the realm of its scope. When are we waking upto the realities. ?